When should you cut ties with a twin flame?

If they…

are married or in a relationship- no matter how bad or close they are to breaking it off. You both should be single.
they tell you they don't want to be in a relationship
addicted to anything – alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, shopping, etc
won’t move to be with you
won’t commit to you (too busy with work, school, life)
too old or too young for you
have an unmanaged mental illness
are verbally or mentally abusive to you or anyone else
aren’t sure they can handle a relationship with you
depend on you for money or happiness
don’t have a job or can’t support themselves as a normal, responsible adult
can’t make you a priority
are in prison or anyway physically unavailable
are emotionally unavailable in any way
make excuses why they can’t meet in person

If You...

feel worse after being around them
know you self-esteem is hurting after being around them
can't think about anything else and ignore your life, friends, passions, and family
want kids and they don't
need more time, love, and commitment and they can't give it to you or promise it in the future
don't feel like a valued, loved, respected, cherished person in the relationship
cry more than laugh
find your relationship is all about painful conversations, convincing, and pleading
it's affecting your career
are only staying because you want to help them or they need you
are their therapist, counselor, or life coach
communicated clearly what you need and they can't or won't give it to you (or vice versa)
stuck in hope
get sick from thinking about them and trying to solve the problem of separation
aren’t able to work because this relationship takes all of your energy

You should definitely cut ties if they have any combo of the above or if you have given them two tries and they have let you down each time. (Some progress is still letting you down.) If it ain’t a hell yes I want to be with you baby, then it’s a hell no. Yes even if your soul is saying yes. Your 3d self gets a vote in this too!

Be honest with yourself. It can be really hard to break up with a twin flame and it may take you a few tries. Most people need to give their twin at least 10 tries to come back around. That’s a lot of opportunities and a lot of disappointment! Look from the outside in and evaluate. Be your own best friend.

Be gentle with yourself. It's hard to do this. This isn't an ordinary breakup. You will go back over and over. This relationship will make no sense to your friends.

Be confident there is someone out there for you that can be everything you need. Sober. Committed. Financially stable. Love doesn't have to be hard. I know it’s hard to believe you’ll never find this again, but remember it’s the FIRST twin flame level love you are feeling. I didn’t believe this was true, but I had to believe I deserved more than what I was getting.

Know that you have many many more lifetimes with them so if it doesn't work out now. You will see them again.

Of course, there are times when you need to push through something that is a trigger for you. But if you have communicated like an adult what you need and they can't give it to your or vice versa. Do them and yourself a favor and get out.

Breaking up with a twin flame is particularly difficult. If you need help or support, I am here for you. You can email me anytime. Twin flame hypnosis is designed to help you move on stop obsessing and find what comes next in your life.

For more tips on how to break up with a twin flame read this article.

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