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My Twin Flame Story:

I used to pride myself on being extremely logical and practical. I had plenty to say about everyone else's love life and swore I would never be so silly.

Then it hit me - love, chemistry, and a soul explosion.... My twin flame.

We met on 1/1/11, and I felt the electric spark right away. I had no idea how my life was about to change.

I had an instant feeling of being home with him and constantly thought about him. I had a vision of us getting married. I knew in my heart he was “the one.” Life felt exciting. Colors were brighter and the world seemed magical and perfect. I was inspired and excited. We kept running into each other randomly, and just being near him I felt complete peace and joy. I knew when he was about to text me, and dreamed of him often.

Over time we hung out, but he would never make it anything official. I kept telling myself it was okay. We were meant to be, just be patient. Meanwhile, I was feeling disappointed and hurt by his lack of actions and his slow response to text.

Things weren’t going how I thought they would.

Looking back and from what I know about his history he probably had some attachment issues and lots of unprocessed wounds. He wasn’t into personal development so likely those would remain unprocessed. 

My head and my heart were in an all out war, and all logic went out the window. I thought I was going crazy. I could see how ridiculous my feelings were. Yet they wouldn’t go away. I blocked him to try to cleanse him from my mind.

I tried to date others and suppress the connection, but he was always on my mind. The pain of separation was unbearable.

I eventually discovered the term twin flame online. I believed the blogs when they said that all I had to do was heal myself, love him unconditionally, be patient, have no doubt that he is the one, and then he would come back to me. 

The pain and personal work led to my first spiritual awakening. I dove in and started meditating to try to control my thoughts. I also discovered therapy, hypnosis, and other techniques. 

Years went by and not much changed. There were small advancements in us, but he never fully chose me. I kept searching for answers.

Eventually, through self-hypnosis and a Brian Weiss CD, I heard his higher self tell me not this lifetime. This led me to blog about my experience - and you finding me :) 

I knew I couldn’t go back, but I couldn’t see the way forward.

• How will I ever find love like this again?

• It took so long to meet him, it will be forever til I find another great love.

• How could my intuition be so broken?

• The universe betrayed me.

• I will always feel alone and like a piece of me is missing.

• What is the point of living if I can’t be with my twin? 

Eventually, after being so tired of all the hurt and pain, I decided I may not ever be whole again, but I have to pick myself up and drag myself on to something else. 

I was never 100% sure that closing off that connection was the right thing to do, but now I do.

I decided to travel and that changed so much for me. I felt free and happy again. I discovered that there were so many more soul connections and life after a twin. 

My twin stayed put in his life and didn’t grow or change from what I could tell. 

I felt so grateful it didn’t work out as there was so much more for me. The universe was right. I needed him to give me nothing, so I could discover everything. 

It was a long journey, but I survived my twin flame or false twin flame (who cares about labels?). Now I help people get clarity around their twin flame situation. 

My Goal:

Each twin flame situation is unique. My goal is to save you time and heartache as you go through you twin flame situation. I can help you understand your twin situation from all angles and if you needed, help you cut the cords with your twin.

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