Twin Flame Signs: What They Mean (Even If You’re Not Together) 1111, 222, 444
On the twin flame journey, a big difference between these connections and regular connections is the insane signs and synchronicities. After years of helping people, I've heard it all including really unbelievable signs and coincidences that you can't make up. Birthdates, names, numbers, songs, dreams, run-ins, connecting on and off through decades, etc.
It feels like there is no way this couldn't be divinely guided. Finally, it's all coming together and you know in your heart this is your twin.
But a very frustrating part of the journey is that the signs can be very strong and relentless, yet there seems to be little or no progress toward reunion.
It creates a painful divide of feeling strong hope, soul knowing, and guidance from the universe, but at the same time hurtful letdown that sends you into a depression when the twin doesn't reach out or they continue not to choose us fully.
And for me when I tried to pull away, the signs would intensify. It was so confusing.
It got so intense that seeing these signs would ruin my whole day. I couldn’t focus on my life and would feel intense urges to reach out to him. Yet that contact never went anywhere.
So why do we keep getting these signs when things aren't progressing year after year?
This was a big question on my journey, and I began to feel really betrayed by the universe and the twin flame blogs. I clung to all the signs and held out hope for years, yet he never chose me fully. I thought my intuition was broken. That the universe was tricking me, and my self-esteem kept going down the longer I waited for him.
Eventually, after 4 or 5 years of holding out hope and some powerful experiences in hypnosis, I realized he wasn't going to choose me this life.
I began to develop a new relationship to the signs. They don't necessarily mean that this is your person, you will be with them soon, or reach out now.
Over the years, I have learned from my journey and others that the signs can mean many different things:
That there is more for you on this journey. You haven't fully gone deep enough into your twin flame void to let them go organically. Or you are trying to force closure before all the lessons have been integrated.
That your guides and ancestors are with you in a neutral way.
There are younger parts of you that are teaming up with your guides to make sure you don't forget your twin flame. They won't let go no matter how unavailable, impossible, or incompatible in the 3D. The inner child can take over your eyes and brain and see your twin flame everywhere.
The twin flame’s soul is just saying hi or that they miss you, but that doesn't mean their 3D self will also be available for more contact. Missing someone is nice to hear, but without actions doesn’t mean much.
You are picking up on a parallel timeline or past life when you were together, but that doesn't guarantee the other person will take action here in this life.
When the signs start back up, I advise clients to simply smile and say hello. Don't try to make a ton of meaning about it. Don’t put ultimatums into the universe like, "If this is really my twin flame, show me a sign." Just allow the signs to be there without making a whole story about them. This is one data point you have about this person and this relationship. Actions, learning relationship skills, repairing conversations, and showing up when things get hard is what counts more.. even in a spiritual connection.
It's on you to talk to your guides about the signs and let them know what you would like them to mean and when it's appropriate for them to show up. This twin flame journey doesn’t need to jerk you around and derail you from your big life goals.
What's the craziest sign you've experienced? Have you found other reasons you’ve been shown signs besides reunion is near?