Can My Twin Feel Me Too?

Many twin flamers feel their twin flame in their energy fields and often wonder do they feel us too? 
I get this question a lot, and it’s important we break it down. 1. Why is it such an essential question on the twin flame journey? 2. How do we verify they do? 

Why is the answer yes or no important? 

-We are often looking to determine if it is a twin flame connection or if we are just going insane. 

-We need to know if we matter to them or if it’s one sided. 

-We needed to know if this connect is strong and powerful or just a crush gone wrong. 

-We want to feel validation that we have something special. 

-We are just naturally curious! 

-We want to see if this whole twin flame thing is real or just an internet fad. 

-We don’t want to waste our time if they don’t feel us too. 

-We want to know where they are on their spiritual journey. Are they sensitve yet? 

It’s key to understand what part of us needs this answer, and what is at stake here. 

It’s essential we don’t waste too much time on connections that are one sided or bad fits. But there is often a part of us that doesn’t want to give up hope too soon and miss out on the love of our lives. 

Now that you have clarified why you need the answer to this question.

How can you verify if they are actually feeling you? 

-Be bold and ask them some light questions: I feel like we have a unique connection. Do you feel that too? Do you sometimes feel me when I’m not near you? Do you believe in soul connections? 

-Muscle testing might work too. 

You can ask a psychic, but as many of us know it can be a slippery slope into outsourcing our power. This journey is about reclaiming your confidence and deciding for yourself which way you want your life to go. 

If you grew up with a lot of neglect as a child or were very lonely, it can be easy to rely on 5d communication and connection to make up the bulk of your twin flame journey. We want to steer away from that because it only further injures our inner child. 

We want to become the adult that our inner child needs and put up boundaries, so we move further towards healthy in-person relationships. 

If you need more help answering this question or deciding what to do next on your twin flame journey, reach out. 

I often advise people who are in mostly 5D based situations to set boundaries with their twin flame and the universe and let them know you won’t be entertaining those kind of connections for long. 

So can your twin flame feel you? Probably. Maybe. 

But the bigger question is what will they do with that information? 

If they are avoidantly attached (afraid of love, overwhelmed by intimacy, too busy, etc). They will likely be afraid of this feeling and will often just shut it down or compartmentalize it. They might only let it in late at night or when their life gets quiet. 

Where you are more likely to love that you can feel your twin, because it feels like closeness on one level. (It can also be a nightmare if you are feeling a lot of their unprocessed trauma). 

Enjoy this incredible connection, but never lose sight of your life goals. Never abandon your needs for longer than a year on the twin flame journey. One year gives you time to get our lessons and determine if this person is ready for love.